Thursday, July 11, 2013

day 299

mum doesnt like to take pictures
the only photo we have together is of us on our front steps
me,
   in my prom gown
her,
   with the biggest I've ever seen her smile

her porcelain is something I was born into
fragile and small
easily broken

we repainted the whole entire first floor last week
mum took the family photos off the living room walls
we stare at the new blank state
I want to teach her how to love herself again.

dad is in three photos
he's holding me in all of them
   he is helping me pick apples today
He whispers, let the fruit fall from the tree
   if it spoils before you can bite into it,
   let the seeds plant life right in front of you. 

I've been trying to grow myself a father ever since. 

dad has bad teeth
I'm convinced he is a mouth full of bruised apple
   and blistering ego

my parents met during the genocide
dad inherited a jewelry store in his dirt rich village
mum was a pretty city girl
it was the glory years
   the ultimate love story
   find a lover your age and run fast enough to plant life before they catch you

but they never taught me how to love
   they only taught me how to fuck like I will run out of life

mum collects porcelain figurines and fancy China sets
she calls it her hobby
she leaves them all in display cases in the dining room
we haven't eaten dinner together in years

on the nights when the house spirit doesn't scare me bad enough
I kneel down and carve my fingernails into the flesh of the living room walls
my therapist says family photos are my instant triggers

when I date someone who comes from a big family,
I want to turn them all into ghosts
   the boys I have loved all come from big families
   they invite me for dinner
   I try my best not to turn my knife into a battlecry
I sit still and smile
   carve my fork along the blues in my arms
   trying to trace back to where my parents met
   and disassemble their paths before they even cross

mum still hasn't put the family photos back onto the living room walls
I say,
   let's fill the frames with baby birds that jump to their death
   and the song cry of an abandoned bee
I hear the house spirit screaming at me through the walls
I keep it trapped inside a home that will never learn how to sing its name
she frowns
   cries at the sight of me performing my own autopsy
   stretches her arms across the walls
I ask,
   isn't this how a family photo works?
   we plant each other onto the walls so strangers can envy us,
   right?
She whispers,
   honeybee,
   where'd you get those teeth?
   you look so much like your father with that smile. 

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